Not Your Job
after Caitlyn Siehl
When the doctor went to pierce
the flap of skin under your nose
with his sterile silver hook
I told you to squeeze my hand
and said, “You are so brave”
sending all of the questions
creeping into the corners
about a scar
on your little nose
or alterations
to the shape
of your heart-shaped nostrils
back to your birth
and people saying how pretty
how beautiful
how lovely
while I insist you are smart, and kind, and sassy
so even if the stitches heal perfectly
it doesn’t matter.
You don’t have to be pretty.
It’s not your job.
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